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Stepparent adoption is common in Jacksonville, Florida, where we, Wood, Atter & Wolf, P.A. is located. Florida recognizes adoption by a stepparent to be commonplace and tries to make the process easy on all parties. Consent of the nonparticipating parent is the best way to gain adoption rights of the child. However, some situations do not require consent of the parent.
Stepparent adoption is usually achieved when a parent remarries and the other parent has not consistenly participated in the child's life. Upon the primary parent's marriage, the new spouse offers to adopt the child so that the child can have an intact and stable environment with a mom and dad. Florida courts, looking at the matter in the best interest of the child, are happy to provide such a family unit to a child.
Typically, a nonparticipating parent is fine giving up their parental rights to the child, because it alleviates the need to pay future child support and they understand that the child has a chance at a two parent home. If the other parent is willing, then it is best to get them to sign a consent terminating their parental rights. This process is the easiest method for all parties.
When a consent to the termination of parental rights is signed, Florida still provides a loophole to the terminating parent. If the child is over 6 months old at the time, then the rights terminating parent has only 3 days to rescind the consent, or until the child is placed in the adopting parent's home, whichever is later.

Florida has annulments, but they are not governed by Florida Statute or law. As a family law attorney in Jacksonville, Florida, I can honestly say that annulments are rare. Annulments are most common in religious settings mainly because a church will sometimes require one from its divorced members. However, getting a court to sign off on an annulment requires a number of steps to be shown or proven to the court.
In Florida, there are only two ways to be granted an annulment, either by showing the marriage is void or showing it is voidable. While they are similar words, they are very different terms. For purposes of this article, I am focusing on the voidable scenario.
A voidable marriage is one where the parties may present to the court that their marriage is invalid for one of the reasons below. However, if the marriage is consummated (marital relations take place) any time after learning of the voidable action, then an annulment is not possible. The following are the forms and explanations of a voidable marriage.
1. Fraud and deceit: Where the deceiving party was lying regarding material facts and the other party actually rely on the misrepresentation. (Example: not telling the other party ones real identity).
2. Duress and undue influence: The act of duress must be shown to have stopped the innocent party from expressing or acting with any form of freewill.
3. Consanguinity: This is actually where the parties are related within a certain degree of one another (example: first cousins).
4. Impotence: This is simply the inability to have marital relations. However, simply being sterile does not give rise to an voidable marriage.
Annulments are not governed by Florida Statute and require more work than a simple divorce, so you should seek the assistance or a good family law attorney to help you.

A Florida Annulment is not a common practice in family law, but they do occur. Florida divorce attorneys do not see annulments on a regular basis because the standard of proof is very difficult to achieve. Recently, I was successful in getting a fraudulent marriage annulled in Jacksonville, Florida. The facts the case were perfect for showing that the marriage was based on fraud by one party against the other, however, that is typically not the case.
For those who don’t really understand what an annulment does, other than allow you to take communion in a Catholic church, it actually makes it as if the marriage never occurred. It’s not a divorce because it completely works to put the parties in a position as if the wedding, vows, etc. never occurred. They are granted only if the marriage is void (one party still married to someone else) or voidable (induced by fraud) and not consummated after learning of the fraud.
A divorce, on the other hand, is the recognized ending of an intact and valid marriage. A divorce is often an important action when there are children born of the marriage, even if the marriage was voidable at the time. The reason for that is because the parties do not want it to appear as if their child was born out of wedlock.
Florida Annulments are not actually defined by Florida statute, but Florida case law. Therefore, it is important to speak with someone that understands the process before asking the court to grant one.

Florida Statutes 61.08http://"target=_blank"governs the factors the courts can use to determine an award of alimony in Florida. However, in Florida, there is no formula for calculating the amount of alimony that could be awarded to any party like there is in calculating a child support obligation.
The main factors considered are the following:
1. The length of the marriage.
2. The contribution of the parties in the marriage
(a) Did one party give up their career or education for the benefit of the other?
(b) Was one party the primary source of income?
(c) Was one party the caretaker?
3. Does the party seeking alimony have the ability to maintain the same lifestyle as a single as s(he) did during the marriage?

The courts must use only the factors set forth in the above statute so it is important when choosing a divorce attorney in Florida to choose a lawyer who is familiar with the above factors and can apply the factors to the specific facts of your case.

Finding the right divorce lawyer in Jacksonville, Duval County, Nassau County, Clay County or St. Johns County Florida is essential in starting your divorce. Choosing which divorce attorney you will use to represent you in determining child custody, child support, alimony, equitable distribution of assets, and the like is the most important decision you can make in you case.

When choosing a family law/divorce attorney, you should be able to discuss openly your situation and communicate freely with the attorney/lawyer representing you. The ideal divorce attorney should be able to tell you candidly about things that you may not want to necessarily hear. The most important quality in choosing a divorce attorney who will deal with such intimate issues as child abuse, spousal abuse or domestic violence, infidelity, or custody arguments is "do I feel comfortable revealing private details about my life with this lawyer?" If you cannot tell your attorney intimate details of the marriage, then you could be placing your case and your attorney at a disadvantage in court.

You should look for an attorney who specializes in family law because an estate planning attorney will not do you much good in a specialized area such as family law. You should choose an attorney with experience in the field to be able to locate assets, review custody evaluations, converse with accountants and psychologists to give your case the edge it deserves.
Most of all you need a lawyer who isn't afraid of the courtroom. Get a litigator. Get an attorney who is comfortable in the courtroom and who isn't afraid to take your case there if a fair settlement cannot be reached on your behalf.

Section 742.18 of the Florida Statutes governs the disestablishment of paternity or termination of child support obligation. There are certain requirements that must be followed when attempting to disestablish paternity. One of the requirements is that the party attempting to disestablish paternity must file a Petition To Disestablish Paternity with the court. Also, a DNA test must be performed and submitted to the court that shows that the male ordered to pay child support is not the father of the child. This DNA test must be performed within 90 days of the filing of the petition, but if the male doesn't have access to the child for paternity testing, then he may file a petition with the court to request the court to order a DNA test.

A Petitioner attempting to disestablish paternity must be current on all child support obligations or that he has substantially complied with the child support payment obligation. This area of law is pretty specialized and the statute states that certain things must be followed in order for the courts to grant the disestablishment of paternity. Please find a lawyer who specializes in family law, marital law, or custody and child support issues to help you if you require this type of court proceeding.

In Florida, when parties obtain a dissolution of marriage and there are children involved, one issue is which party will carry the health insurance on the children. If the party who does not have primary timesharing with the children carries the health insurance for the children, he or she will receive a "credit" towards the child support obligation to help cover the cost of the health insurance. As such, it can be a benefit to be the party who sustains the health insurance obligation. However, recently, the government has been exploring the idea of taxing health insurance benefits to employees. Under the current law, employer contributions for health insurance premiums provided for employees are not taxable income to employees, but that could change in the near future. Be aware that if health benefits become taxed as income to the party maintaining the insurance on behalf of the children that this could affect the child support, net monthly income and "credits" provided to the obliging party.

When John Nelson of Orlando Florida was making six figures as a software executive, it was no struggle for him to pay $2200 a month in child support to his ex-wife. But when he got laid off and couldn’t find work, the story was different. He filed for a reduction in his support payments, but had to wait nearly a year to get to court – and he was required to keep paying the support while he waited for his case to come up.

By the time his case was heard, Nelson had found a job as a high school science teacher, making significantly less than at his previous job. He was astounded when Family law Judge Julian Piggotte not only denied his request to lower his payment, but actually raised his responsibility by $300 a month – leaving him just $58 a week to live on. The judge then recused herself from the case because her husband is a coworker of Nelson's ex-wife. Nelson sold his house and moved to Georgia to look for a better paying job. While he may be able to afford the large child support payments, he will be living father away from his kids. Find out more about this topic at Many Dads Asking For Changes In Child Support.

When a parent loses a job, the children still need food, clothing and medical care among other things. Courts make child support decisions based on what is in the best interest of the child, not of the parents. If you are involved in a divorce or child support issue, please contact our firm for expert legal counsel.

In Jacksonville, Florida, like the rest of the nation, parties are finding it difficult to make the final split and afford a divorce attorney to deal with important issues. Issues that can arise in a Florida Divorce are: the dvision of assets and debts; calculating alimony; child support payments; child custody; domestic abuse; and the valuation and division of the family business.
Some suggestions in divorcing in a bad economy include finding a divorce attorney in Jacksonville, Florida who will work with you on attorney's fee payments, who will provide a free consultation or who may engage in a limited appearance on your behalf to draft and file your pleadings or to serve subpoenas or summonses. There are many creative ways to secure a good divorce or family law attorney in Florida in the waning economy. Be certain to inquire about ways to ease the payment and the process when speaking with a family law attorney.
Divorces can get expensive, but they don't necessarily have to. Be savvy and ask questions. This is a great time to buy a house or a car. Shop for a divorce attorney in the same way as you would those items. You will not be disappointed when you get the same good deal.

The Florida Supreme Court will be deciding the issue of whether the Florida Constitutional provision stating that gays and lesbians and transgendered people in the State of Florida cannot adopt is constitutional. Miami-Dade Circuit Judge, Cindy Lederman, has ruled that the law declaring that homosexuals in Florida cannot adopt violates the equal protection clause of the Constitution. The Court in Miami-Dade applied the best interests of the child standard in reviewing the antiquated law and decided that it would be in the best interests of the child if the child remained with the two men who had raised him and cared for him and loved him while he was their child in a foster care situation.
Florida is the only state that bars gay adoption by its constitution. Now that the Circuit Court has ruled the provision unconstitutional, the Florida Supreme Court has stepped in to make a decision on the actual constitutionality of the issue. The case has sparked many concerns and interests throughout Florida and the rest of the country. Recently the Florida Family Law Section of the Florida Bar has gotten involved with the brief process due to the overall interest and best interest standards for children. The Family Law Section is a separate division from the Florida Bar, but many have publicly protested the entry of the Florida Bar in any form. However, the Family Law section feels the need to get involved in this matter due to the overall interests in protecting rights of Florida's prospective adopting parents, and the rights and best interests of children that are currently in need of a permanent home.

Many of us have heard the old adage that divorce is hardest on the children. Now counselors and psychologists have a new name for the phenomenon – they have coined the phrase “parental alienation” (also sometimes referred to as “alienation of the child”). The term refers specifically to one parent going out of his or her way to turn the children against the other parent and can include telling children inappropriate information, lying, denying court mandated visitation, and even parental abduction. Experts are careful to note that this goes far beyond relatively normal behavior of speaking out occasionally in front of the children in anger or frustration; parental alienation is marked by parents putting their own selfish feelings above the welfare of their children.

When parents put themselves and their anger ahead of their children, they draw their children into conflict, making the children confused and anxious as they try to work through issues of parental loyalty. Ongoing effects on children can include depression, behavioral problems and learning disorders. Counselors recommend using mediation and collaborative family law to resolve these types of issues within families. They believe that the best way to help children is through early intervention with parents. Most importantly, children need to get the message that it is okay to love both parents during and after a divorce. Read more about this phenomenon at Children torn by divorce.

True parental alienation is a complex emotional issue that likely will involve legal action if one parent is denying court-ordered visitation. A parent in this situation should seek legal counseling and advice from a qualified family law attorney. If you believe you are the victim of parental alienation, please contact our firm for help.

Florida Adoptions are governed by Chapter 63 of the Florida Statutes. In Jacksonville and surrounding areas, the court will look to Chapter 63 in handling the many areas of adoption that arise. The different types of adoptions are the following:
1. Private adoptions
2. Step-parent adoptions
3. Grandparent adoptions
4. All types of domestic and international adoptions.

Each form of adoption has a different procedure that is governed by the Florida Statutes. It is extremely important when adopting your new family member to choose a professional who has experience in dealing with all types of different adoption classes. Adoption costs can vary depending on the form of adoption sought. Most adoptions range in price depending on the type of adoption, the attorney's practice and the issues involved in the matter.

There are organizations that can help, but ultimately an attorney will need to be involved in the process. Hiring your own attorney can be beneficial because the movement of your adoption can be governed by the attorney's hands-on approach. The process is a delicate one and it's important to look at all aspects of your decision. Having someone leading you through it all can be helpful and make the process much easier to understand.

Jacksonville, Florida and the rest of the country are feeling the stress of the economy. Times are tough, which makes people scared and angry. Domestic violence and tempers are on the rise in Jacksonville, Florida, and all across the nation. But it isn't necessarily men who are doing all of the battering. More and more men are becoming victims of domestic violence and they are no longer taking it "like a man". When anyone experiences violence against his/her person, it is imperative to seek help immediately. Whether that help comes in the immediate form of calling the police or subsequent to the abuse in fleeing to a domestic violence center , a hotel, or to an attorney, help is essential.

Ron Artest, Former Indiana Pacers star, was beaten and abused by his girlfriend when she struck him in the head. Artest called the police and the girlfriend was arrested. Many times men are afraid to call the police for help as the stereotype is to arrest the man when a domestic situation occurs. Men need to be encouraged to seek help whenever domestic violence is perpetrated against them.

In Florida, an injunction for protection against domestic violence can be issued and/or criminal charges can be filed against the batterer. There are provisions for protection for all and that protection should be sought before taking the law into your own hands.

When going through a Florida divorce or paternity case involving children, it is important to put the children first. Florida Statute 61.122 governs child custody evaluations in Florida. When Florida parties are divorcing and custody is an issue, the court will often order the parties to obtain a custody evaluation. A custody evaluation is performed by a licensed psychologist who will interview the parties, the children, neighbors and any witnesses suggested by the parties or by the attorneys involved in the case. The psychologist will then write a recommendation as to which party should be the primary time sharing parent in the psychologist's opinion.
The courts rely heavily on the custody evaluation in custody cases but the courts do not have to follow the evaluation's recommendation. The cost of a custody evaluation varies ranging anywhere from $1,500.00-$5,000.00 and is usually split by the parties. It is important to obtain a Florida family law attorney prior to having a custody evaluation performed to receive counsel on statutory factors pertaining to custody.